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Love & Relationships

First loves, lifelong partnerships, deep friendships, and the people who left a mark.

How two people met, the day they married, the friendships that lasted a lifetime — these are the stories that defined a life but rarely get written down. These questions about love and relationships invite a parent or grandparent to tell the story of the people who mattered most to them.

Some are tender and some are funny; all of them are worth keeping. Ask them gently, one at a time, and let the answers run. Recorded by voice with Storykept, a grandmother's account of her first dance or a grandfather's proposal survives exactly as they tell it.

  1. Tell me about the day you first met the love of your life. Where were you, and what happened?

  2. Describe the very first moment you noticed them across a room. What caught your eye?

  3. Tell me about your first date together. Where did you go, and how did it feel?

  4. Tell me about the moment you knew this was the person you wanted to spend your life with.

  5. Tell me about your first love, when you were young. What were they like?

  6. What do you remember about your first kiss?

  7. Tell me about a time, early on, when someone gave you butterflies. What were they doing?

  8. Tell me about the day you got engaged. How did it happen?

  9. Take me back to your wedding day. What do you remember most clearly?

  10. Describe what you wore the day you married. What did you see when you looked at each other?

  11. Tell me about the first time you met your partner's family. How did that go?

  12. Describe the first home you shared with someone you loved. What was it like?

  13. Tell me about a small, everyday ritual you and your partner had together.

  14. Was there a song that belonged to the two of you? Tell me about the first time you heard it together.

  15. Tell me about your best friend when you were a child. What did the two of you get up to?

  16. Tell me about a friend who stood by you through a hard time. What did they do?

  17. Tell me about a friendship that started in an unexpected way. How did you two meet?

  18. Did you ever write or receive love letters? Tell me about one you remember.

  19. How did courting work when you were young? Tell me about a time you went calling on someone, or they on you.

  20. Tell me about a time you and someone you loved were far apart. How did you stay close?

  21. Tell me about the most romantic thing someone ever did for you.

  22. Tell me about something you once did to win someone's heart.

  23. If you'd like to share, tell me about your first heartbreak. What happened?

  24. Tell me about a friend you lost touch with over the years. What do you remember about them?

  25. Tell me about a time you mended things with someone after a falling-out.

  26. Tell me about a hard season you and your partner came through together. How did you get through it?

  27. Tell me about a time someone you loved made you laugh until you cried.

Want these answered in their own voice — and kept forever?

Storykept guides your family through these questions by voice. No writing, no pressure. Free to start.

Love & Relationships — Questions to Ask | Storykept